TV, or not TV- That is the question.....

Well how’s this for a shocker!! It’s only been a month, and I’m already posting another entry?? I know you’re asking yourself “What have I done to be awarded with such a glorious prize??” The answer is- nothing! It is only out of the kindness and generosity of my massive heart that I bestow this entry upon you. You may now weep tears of joy, for such a short wait.

Last time I created a list of my favorite films of all time. Some of you agreed with many of my selections- and others (my beautiful bride) chided me for including too many fantasy/sci-fi/comic book films. Just recently, in my Film class at school, we watched several episodes of a TV show that I absolutely love. Which sparked a conversation between me and wifey- what are my favorite TV shows of all time? And thus- a blog entry is born!!

Television has always played a major role in my life. From the PBS educational shows as a kid, to the more bizarre, cerebral shows that I enjoy watching today, I’ve always loved TV. Yes, I know, too much TV rots your brain, yada yada yada. In my defense, I don’t watch near as much TV now as I have in various periods of my life. But there has been a lot over the years. So once again, to try and pare down all of these great programs into a shorter list is a somewhat daunting task. But lucky for you, I am up to it! So strap in kids- here we go!

10. The Brady Bunch- “Here’s a story…. About a lovely lady….” Yes, I am going back to youth for the first show on my list. This is one of the first shows that I can remember watching the same episodes multiple times. Thanks to syndication over the years, I have seen every episode, and can, in fact, quote multiple episodes. My nieces, Shannon and Shelly, and I would watch them over and over and incorporate bits of dialogue from the shows into our conversations with each other. Yes it’s cheesy, and poorly written and acted at times, but it kept drawing me in over and over. Who can forget the trips to the Grand Canyon and Hawaii? Oh my nose? Phil Packer? Peter’s twin? Marcia Marcia Marcia? I could go on and on. But I won’t.

9. The Walking Dead- Let me preface this by saying I do not like horror films. I don’t like gore. However- there’s something about this show that I find oddly irresistible. To me it’s more than just a show about zombies killing and eating people. Which they do. It’s a survival story. And once again, I am really drawn to the characters, and enjoy watching them remake themselves as they find themselves stranded in a desolate, post-apocalyptic society. I love watching each one of them struggle to cling to their humanity, while adapting to the brutality of the new world that they live in. I’ve even found myself weeping a time or two, although I was derided by my friend Shawn McEvoy for tearing up at a zombie show. There are times when Rick Grimes can rival Jack Bauer for his bad-assness, and who doesn’t love Daryl “Motherf----n” Dixon? A show that is definitely not afraid to kill off characters, which makes me nervous because there are several that I gave grown fond of and would hate to see them zombiefied.

8. The West Wing- Another creation by renowned playwright and screenwriter, Aaron Sorkin. This show had all of the Sorkin trademarks- really smart characters speaking dialogue that is way over everyones’ heads in a machine-gun staccato fashion as they’re walking through a building. I loved the look at big time politics, and especially in today’s political climate, it was nice seeing them portrayed as real people who actually cared about the people they served. It had a stellar cast, and Martin Sheen was one of the best fictional Presidents ever. I have to admit, sometimes I wasn’t sure what they were talking about, but it was still riveting.

7. Friday Night Lights- “Clear eyes, full hearts, can’t lose.” This is the motto of the mythical Dillon Panthers, lead by Coach Eric Taylor. I’m pretty sure Coach Taylor is the wisest coach that has ever lived. This show is about a small town in Texas, where high school football rules over all. Follow the exploits of Coach Taylor, his wife Tami, and multiple other supporting characters. My wife, who is not at all a football fan, loved the show as well. It’s only 5 seasons, and we binge watched, greedily devouring episode after episode. I have to warn you- Season 2 is pretty ridiculous, but if you get past that, it’s pretty great. And it’s one of the rare shows that has a series finale that is immensely satisfying.

6. Mad Men- Don Draper is one of the most flawed, unlikeable protagonists to ever lead a show. But I can’t help but root for him, even as he disappoints me time after time. I just can’t quit him. This show follows a group of advertising execs in the 1960’s. It was definitely a different time back then, and this show perfectly encapsulates what our country was going through at that time. The writing is whip smart, and the acting is superb. It’s a tricky show to recommend, because I know not everyone will like it. This series will be ending in 2 weeks, and I can’t wait to see what will become of Don, Peggy, Roger, Pete, and the rest of the gang.

And now- Bartley’s Top 5 TV Shows!!!!

5. 24- Jack Bauer is the king of bad-assery. That’s all you need to know. This is definitely one of those shows that multiple times I was literally on the edge of my seat to see how Jack would get out of his latest predicament. If you’ve never seen The Jack Bauer Power Hour, each season was 24 episodes- each hour happened in real time. Jack had more bad days than anyone could possibly have, and his life was a tragedy because of it. But if you needed saving, Jack was the guy to call. I even saw him kill a dude with his thighs one time. The last season did get pretty bizarre, but the legacy of Jack Bauer was strong enough to overcome one weak season.

4. Freaks and Geeks- This was the show I recently showed to my Film class. I typically only use the word “tragedy” to describe actual tragic events, but it was a tragedy that this show was cancelled after only one season. No show has ever captured the ecstasy, pain, and heartbreak of my high school days then this one. Set in a Detroit high school in 1980, it follows the story of Lindsay Weir, as she struggles to break away from her rigid, boring life. She befriends the schools “freaks” (we called them “hoods” or “stoners” at our school) to attempt to broaden her horizons and break out of her shell. Her little brother Sam is in school as well, and his friends were the “geeks”- this is the group I identified with. I remember having some of the very same conversations that Sam, Bill and Neal have in the show. I even had the exact same Darth Vader poster in my room that Sam has in his. This show helped launch the careers of James Franco, Seth Rogen, and Jason Segel. It was a comedy that had heart- in any given episode I would be laughing hysterically one moment, and weeping the next. If this show had lasted longer, it may have been higher on my list. But alas.

3. Seinfeld- The greatest comedy of all time. No doubt about it. Jerry, George, Elaine and Kramer were perfectly cast, and had greater chemistry and comic timing than any other ensemble I’ve ever seen. The comedy could range from subtle, to satire, to broad slapstick, and it was all executed flawlessly. George Costanza is easily one of the most uncomfortable characters ever created. There are so many classic episodes, but the one that springs to mind first is the “Master of my Domain” episode. It’s comic gold. There are multiple catch phrases that have worked their way into our society’s vernacular. What saddens me is that I use many of them in my classroom, but am met with only dull, vacant stares, because these punk kids have not experienced the genius of Seinfeld. (I actually met Jerry Seinfeld once in OKC- he was very friendly and he gave us autographs.) In fact, I’m pretty sure that when Cindy and I got engaged, she used this Seinfeld phrase to describe me:  "He is a loathsome, offensive brute, and yet I can't look away."

2. Twin Peaks- Coffee. Cherry pie. Backwards talking dancing little people. When Twin Peaks premiered back in 1990 it was like nothing I had ever seen on television. I was immediately sucked in to the moody quirkiness of the town and its characters, and the question "Who killed Laura Palmer?" was on everyone's lips. I wrote about the show extensively in a previous blog post, so go check that out. And recently it was announced that there would finally be a third season next year after a 25 year break, but now it may not happen because of budget disputes with the director David Lynch. Please please please please give him what he wants. I need to see a new season!!!

1. Lost- Whenever I mention this show to someone, I get one of two very passionate responses: "I loved it!!!" or "I hated the ending!! They didn't answer anything!!!" I think it really depends on your personality type. Those of us who loved it were there for the ride and the characters, and it didn't matter that they didn't answer every little mystery that popped up over a six season run. To me, it was a groundbreaking show that had everything I could ever want from a TV show- mystery, intrigue, action, romance, humor, and tragedy. I laughed at the antics of Hurley and Sawyer. I cringed at the dastardliness of Ben Linus, one of TV's greatest villains. I sobbed violently during more than one episode, as this was a show that was willing to kill off major, beloved characters. I rooted every week for Jack and Locke to somehow come together, and merge their unwavering beliefs in Faith and Science. And I thought the finale was beautiful. It amazes me when I talk to people about the finale who just don't get it. They think that it shows that the whole show was nothing but a dream- but that couldn't be further from the truth. Were there plot holes at times?Yes. Lapses in logic? Sure. But as I've stated before, If I truly love a plot and its characters, I am willing to overlook some things. To me this show transcended just being a show I watched on TV. It was a weekly event that I greatly anticipated. I loved the journey so much- I don't think I'll ever have another one like it. 

Honorable Mention- These shows almost made the cut, but missed for various reasons:

MASH

Community

The Flash

Friends

ER

Star Trek (original)

Parenthood

Cheers

Fargo

What do you think kids? What did I miss? Please add your favorites!!

PS- You’ll notice there are no HBO or Showtime shows on my list. I’m sure some of these are outstanding, but I have steadfastly refused to pay extra for these services. Perhaps I’ll watch some of them someday, but not now.

I Like the Mooviez!!

Hey boys and girls! Your old Uncle Scotty has been away for way too long! I knew it had been awhile since I’d written, but it’s been three friggin’ months! So sorry for the delay- let’s get crack-a-lackin!

Numerous times over the vast expanse that has been my life, I have been asked the same question: “What is your favorite movie?” Most of the time I just shake off the question and give some vague response. Those of you that know me, know that I have a great love for the cinema. I always have. There’s something that’s so exciting to me about going into a dark theatre with my box of Milk Duds and watching stories unfold on the screen before me. And over the last several decades there have been many that I have loved. But to pick favorites? That’s tricky. So I sat down and put pen to paper and tried to create a “Top 10” list of my favorite movies. It was hard, believe you me. But I think I’ve whittled away my list down to these 10. However, a year from now it may be different. I guess these are my favorite right now. In fact, I currently teach a Film as Literature class at the high school, and several of these I show in class. (Yes, I’m desperately trying to educate these punk kids on what “good film” is.) So here goes- starting with Number 10 and working our way up:

10. Dead Poets Society- This movie speaks to me on many levels. First of all, you have to talk about the brilliant performance by Robin Williams as the inspirational teacher Mr. Keating. His performance is hilarious, and heartbreaking. It’s a stellar cast of young actors, including Ethan Hawke and Robert Sean Leonard. The fact that he’s an English Teacher (like myself) appeals to me as well. Usually when I watch this, I immediately want to be more like him. (I’m usually not, because I don’t want students falling off their desks.) It has a great story, great script, and a great cast. It makes me laugh and moves me to tears. Wonderful film.

9. Blue Velvet- This is a movie I would not recommend to everyone. To me, it is David Lynch at the top of his game back in the 1980’s. It has everything you would expect from a Lynch film- dark, moody surrealism, with a healthy dose of Americana and apple pie. A young Kyle MacLachlan plays the protagonist. His world is calm and innocent at the beginning, but he is soon mixed up with one of the most bizarre cast of characters one could meet. This group is led by Dennis Hopper playing Frank Booth- one of the scariest, funniest, strangest characters I have ever seen on film. This movie definitely takes a dark turn, so proceed with caution.

8. A Few Good Men- “You can’t handle the truth!!!” This iconic line is bellowed by my favorite actor, Jack Nicholson, as Lt. Col. Nathan Jessup. Recently I showed this in my class at school, and as this line was said, my class burst into giggles. They had all heard the phrase, but didn’t know where it came from! (Kids today…..) This movie, based on a play by Aaron Sorkin, has everything you want from a courtroom drama. The script is great, and it’s fun watching actors spit out Sorkin’s snappy dialogue. It was way back before Tom Cruise got weird, and did I mention it has Jack Nicholson? My brother-in-law Brian, who really doesn’t watch too many movies, has memorized several key phrases from the film, and it’s always a joy when I see him to see how much of it we can work into our own dialogue.

7. Star Wars- Episode IV: A New Hope- Now when I was a wee lad and saw this movie for the first time back in the summer of 1977, it was just called Star Wars. And it. Blew. My. Tiny. Mind. I had never seen anything like it. And neither had millions of other people. George Lucas, the creative mastermind, had only made a few films before this one, and there was really no indication that this would be the massive cultural phenomenon that it is today. So why isn’t this groundbreaking film higher on my list? Well- although Lucas was highly imaginative, I really don’t think he’s much of a screenwriter or director. When you watch this now, it’s “clunkiness” jumps out at you. Yes, he was working on a shoestring budget, but much of the dialogue was horribly cheesy, and even though he had good actors, even they had trouble making it sound good (as Harrison Ford has said publicly). But the first Star Wars film will always have a place in my heart for introducing us to this marvelous galaxy, far far away.

6. Batman Begins- Comic books have always played an important role in my life. I began collecting them avidly when I was in the second grade, and my best friend at that time, Perry McMahon, and I would force our parents to haul us all over Oklahoma City regularly so that we could satiate our comic book fix. There were multiple titles and characters that I collected, but one stood out above all- The Batman. Before I (sadly) sold my comic collection last summer, I had amassed hundreds of Batman comics- in fact, I had every issue of “Batman” dating back to 1972. And this movie, Batman Begins, captured the spirit and the essence of the character that none of the previous incarnations of screen Batman had done. It was a great movie that just happened to be about a guy who decides to dress up as a bat and fight crime. Christopher Nolan managed to take this ridiculous sounding concept, and make it look like it could actually happen. Christian Bale nailed it as the Caped Crusader, and it ended with me dying to see more. And I would- more on that later.

And now- “dun-dun-dun”- the TOP FIVE BARTLEY FILMS!!!

5. The Lord of the Rings- The Fellowship of the Ring- OK, I have a confession to make. And in doing so, I may have to turn in my nerd card. As a kid, I never read The Hobbit or The Lord of the Rings books. So I did not join in the collective geekgasm when it was announced that there would be big budget films made of those books. Then I started seeing the previews, and I thought- well gee, that looks pretty good. When this movie opened, I went in knowing almost nothing about the story- and I LOVED it. I fell in love with the characters, and the worlds that Peter Jackson created. I even felt myself overcome with emotion at times (“Fly you fools, fly!”). And I was hooked. And I couldn’t wait until the next one, which would be out the following year. The story of Frodo and Sam’s journey is one that I found to be compelling. And it gave me a line that I get to share with my students on occasions of their failure- “YOU--- SHALL NOT----PASS!!!!”

4. Return of the Jedi- In 1983, I attended a “graduation” ceremony celebrating the completion of my 9^th grade year. I was finishing Jr. High, and was prepared to move on to High School. But on that day, immediately after the ceremony was over, I had my sister whisk me to the Heritage Park Movie Theatre, where I would see the 12:00 show of the premiere of Return of the Jedi. I had been patient for 3 years, but the wait was over. And it completely lived up to my young teen expectations. Leia is Luke’s brother? Yikes! Luke and his dad duking it out for Universal supremacy whilst a shriveled, evil Emperor cheers them on? Wowza! Ewoks?!? I loved every second of it. I even teared up a bit as they placed Anakin’s body on the funeral pyre at the end. I walked out of the theatre, turned, got back in line, and bought a ticket for the very next showing. The force was strong with me that day. Looking back, I still think it was a fitting sendoff for our heroes (even though they are coming back this December, 30 years later!!).

3. Return of the King- Yes, movie number 4 and 3 both start with “Return”, and they are both the third film of a trilogy. I already expressed my love for The Lord of the Rings earlier. This film wraps up a trilogy better than just about any other. It’s also the only one on my list that actually won the “Best Picture” Oscar. Peter Jackson knocked this out of the park. It was an emotionally satisfying end for all of my favorite characters. And although some people grumbled about the “multiple endings”, I had no problem with it. In fact, I probably wept a little more with each one as I said goodbye to Frodo, Sam, Merry, Pippin, Aragorn, Gandalf, Legolas, and Gimli. I think I’m about to start crying now….

2. The Dark Knight- What can I say about this film that hasn’t been said? I told you about my love for the Batman, and he has arguably the greatest Rogues Gallery in all of comics. This film marked the return of the Joker to the Silver Screen. He was portrayed previously by the great Jack Nicholson, and when they announced that pretty-boy actor Heath Ledger was playing him this time, I was more than trepidatious. I needn’t have worried- Ledger’s Joker was brilliant, and the film was an exceptional crime drama featuring Batman and the Joker. I toyed with making this my #1 film, but the fact that I feel the third act of the film slows down a bit kept it from taking the top spot. The interrogation scene in the middle of the film is one of my all-time favorite scenes in all of cinema.

And the Number One Bartley film is…………

The Empire Strikes Back- This film is flawless. It’s the greatest sequel ever, far surpassing the first Star Wars film in every way. All elements of filmmaking come together for the perfect movie storm- the acting, script, story, direction, and action. John Williams’ score is perfect- every note evoking a particular mood or emotion. Irvin Kershner, the director, frames every scene perfectly, and some of it is just gorgeous to look at. I especially love the lighting- each locale and situation is lit perfectly, with the proper shadows and colors to convey a sense of dread throughout the film. The immaculate scene is when Luke finally confronts Vader in Bespin towards the end. As Luke slowly mounts the stairs to face-off against his nemesis (and his dad! Dude!), the shot is bathed in blues and reds, and we see only the silhouettes of Luke and Vader, and the glows of their light sabers. I get chills every time this scene comes on, and I am riveted throughout the entire duel, until Darth drops the parental bombshell. I can tell you that in May of 1980, 12 year old Scott Bartley’s mind literally exploded. I absolutely love this film.

There you have it, dear friends. Below is a list of Honorable Mention films, which almost made the list, but didn’t. And I know I’m leaving some off.

Honor Roll:

Silence of the Lambs

One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest

Inception

Back to the Future

Unforgiven

Saving Private Ryan

Raiders of the Lost Ark

How about it kids? What would you add to the list? Or take off? Let me hear it!

You Bet I Do!!

           

               “It was 20 years ago today……” This was the opening line to arguably one of the greatest albums ever recorded- Sgt. Pepper’s Lonely Hearts Club Band by that little pop quartet, the Beatles. And it was 20 years ago today that Cindy Todd, in front of God and a bunch of family and friends, swore to love me in sickness and in health, and in blah, blah, blah, till death do us part. And so far, she has lived up to that oath, because we’re both still kicking, and we are still married. Whouda thunk???

                Let’s get a little perspective. Let’s borrow Doc Brown’s flux capacitor and go back in time to 1994. I finally graduated college and, breaking my girlfriend Cindy’s heart, moved to Texas with my college roomie Shawn McEvoy. We found a decent little apartment in Arlington, and I got a job as an Assistant Manager at Blockbuster Video. (Remember video stores??) Cindy was working in the Admissions Dept at OBU. That summer Shawn and I saw a few good movies- “The Lion King” had just opened, as well as “Forrest Gump”. (I’m sure Shawn and I painted a fine picture as two adult men openly sobbing in the theatre as Forrest buried Jenny.) We also watched former football player OJ Simpson lead police on Mr. Toad’s Wild Ride in his white Ford Bronco. And at the end of the year, the Dallas Cowboys were marching their way to play in the Super Bowl in early 1995. But I had other plans- I finally manned up, bought a ring, and when Cindy came for a visit that summer, I popped the big question. Her immediate response was “Are you serious??!!??” Then she said “I don’t know. I have to think about it.” And she thought about it- overnight. That was an awkward evening, I can assure you. But the next day, after I had been sweating all night, she finally said “Yes”. And so began our long, epic journey together.

               

                Cindy became Mrs. Bartley on Dec. 31, 1994. New Year’s Eve. It was cold that night, my friends. We got married at 6:00 at the Capitol Hill Baptist Church in Oklahoma City, with a reception immediately following. Of course, being good Baptist boys and girls, there was no imbibing of spirits, nor was there any gesticulating to music. But a good time was had by all. Cindy and I stayed at a B & B that night, while we hear that several of our friends went out to some local honky tonk and danced and partied the night away. Some people even met spouses there, but that’s another story.

                Being a responsible husband, I had to get a real job. I had been managing the local movie theater in Shawnee since my return to Oklahoma, but I needed something more stable. So I turned to the one thing that I was trained for in college- teaching. Fortunately my alma mater, Del City High, was in need of an English Teacher at the semester, and they welcomed me with open arms. Cindy and I settled down in Shawnee where we have remained ever since.

                A lot has happened over 20 years. We have both gone through the “better and worse”, and we have always been there for each other for all of it. There were births: Sabrina, Marilyn, and our twin sons. And there have been deaths: our twin sons, Cindy’s dad Bob, and my mothers, Sherry and Geraldine. There have been job changes: after Cindy had worked loyally for years at a local semi-Christian college, she was unceremoniously dumped. But she landed on her feet, and became a counselor at Shawnee High School, where she is still making a difference in kids’ lives. I taught, went to grad school, taught some more, tried to sell insurance, and finally taught some more. I’m currently also at Shawnee High School, where I teach just a few feet away from my darling bride. It’s a good thing we like each other……

                Yes, we have gone through a lot in these 20 years, as most couples do. Ours in not the perfect marriage- whose is? There have been times when I wanted to strangle my buttercup, and I know for a fact (perhaps even right now) when she has wanted to strangle me. There has been much laughter and many tears. And I can’t think of a better way to have spent these 20 years, then with my best friend. (I know- it’s such a vomit-inducing cliché, but she really is my best friend.) She’s my BFF, my bestie, my Constant, the love of my life. We’re not lovey-dovey huggy-wuggy people, but I know that I will always love her with a passion and an unwavering love, and I can say with certainty that she feels the same for me. I’m not sure I believe in “soul-mates”, or that we’re destined for only one person, or that God provides us with these people. But I do know that every day I thank God for letting be married to Cindy Todd Bartley. Happy Anniversary babe- I love you. Let’s try for another twenty!!!

That Gum You Like is Going to Come Back in Style

Hey kids- I'm afraid it's been too long since my last post. I hope you haven't forgotten me! I'm sure you've been clamoring for my latest entry- and here it is! I feel like I need to write to get over some painful events that have taken place in the past 24 hours. So I'm going to talk about one of the greatest television shows ever to grace the silver screen. Of course, if you haven't already guessed from the title of this post- it's Twin Peaks!! Yes, that show from the 90's that caused millions around the country to gather round the boob tube every week to learn who killed Twin Peaks' sweetheart, Laura Palmer.

You see, back in 1990 I was actually living in sunny Southern California, struggling to be a starving actor. The newspapers and TV guide and entertainment fanzines were all hyping a new show by mastermind director David Lynch that was going to premiere in April on ABC. (Remember, this was back in the days when the internets was just a twinkle in Al Gore's eye.) It sounded interesting, so I watched the pilot episode- and I was immediately hooked. It was like nothing I had ever seen on television before. It was weird, funny, surreal, frightening, and weird, all at the same time. The characters were bizarre, to say the least, and the jazzy musical score added an extra layer of unearthly lushness to each episode. Essentially, it was a soap opera. It had a murder mystery set in a small town, but it also juggled multiple other sub-plots dealing with a plethora of characters. (I believe this is partially what led to its early demise- I think it tried to do TOO much.) But I loved it, and I couldn't wait to watch it each week.

The first season was only 8 episodes, and much to my delight, it was picked up for a second season. That's when the wheels started to fall off. Several things contributed to its death. First, the network wanted the murder resolved, so just a few episodes into the second season, the killer of Laura Palmer was revealed. But now what? The showrunners struggled to create new interesting story lines to want to keep people tuning in. Second, it's masterminds, David Lynch and Mark Frost, had less to do with the show, leaving it to other people. The show limped along in its second season, but Lynch came back for the finale, and it was great! Unfortunately, its ratings had dropped so much, that the network cancelled it. And the show ended on a massive cliffhanger!! What was to become of Agent Cooper???

Why did I love the show so much? Several reasons. Something I've learned about myself is I am really drawn to a story if I like the characters. And Twin Peaks has one of my favorite fictional characters of all time- Agent Dale Cooper. I thought he was so friggin cool. And when he spoke the infamous line "You know, this is- excuse me- a damn fine cup of coffee", I knew I had a soulmate. There were other eccentric characters that I was drawn to as well. All richly drawn, and just a bit strange. The other thing I'm drawn to in a show or film are the visuals. And David Lynch has such a unique, surreal visual and aural style. In fact, I will admit, that I am willing to forgive holes in the plot or other flaws if I am taken in by the characters or the visuals. Recently, my dear friend Alex Greenwood (who is a celebrated novelist- check out Amazon for his newest book "Pilate's Blood"- you won't regret it!) dismissed my darling show as being "weird for weird's sake". And he may be right. But I don't care, because I was drawn into the world of Twin Peaks, and I loved every minute I was there.

So why the sudden interest in a show that's been gone for almost 25 years? Well, brace yourselves kids, just a few weeks ago it was announced that in 2016 Twin Peaks will return for 9 episodes on Showtime, and they will all be written and directed by Frost and Lynch!!! When I saw that, I squealed like a little girl and peed my pants just a bit! You see, in the final episode, in one of the bizarre dream sequences, dream Laura Palmer told dream Dale Cooper she would see him again in 25 years. And it will be 25 years in 2016!!!! Finally some closure! But I'm trying to temper my enthusiasm a bit. Seldom do sequels that have taken decades to get made live up to the originals. (I'm looking at you Phantom Menace, and Indiana Jones.) But a girl can dream, can't she? I can't wait to see the return of Cooper, Sheriff Truman, Audrey, Laura, and the remaining cast of kooks! It may not live up to the original, but with Lynch back at the helm, I know it's going to be a trippy ride! So in 2016 I will subscribe to Showtime, bake a cherry pie, make a pot of hot, black coffee, and step through the Black Lodge (avoiding the dancing dwarf) into the the small, dreamy, northwest town, that is known as Twin Peaks. See you there!!!

Confidence and Perspective

"I will NEVER teach again!!!" Never say never, my friends. That was the phrase that I swore to myself when I left education about seven years ago. You see, I had been teaching high school for several years. And I was burned out. Like totes burned out. And I couldn't wait to get out and find a "real" job. I had been searching for years, to no avail. Every test I took told me that I should be in sales, but I had NO desire to do that. I applied for several jobs, had some interviews, and came close a few times to getting another job, but it never came to fruition. Until one day, a friend of mine who was in the insurance biz, invited me along on a trip that he had won to San Francisco. I went, and had a great time. And was exposed to just how much dough those insurance folks can make. I thought I knew, but I really didn't- some of those people were loaded! I thought "I can do this!!" So I took some tests, quit my teaching job, and became a self-employed insurance agent, selling policies for a MAJOR company.


Here's where the "confidence" comes in. The only grown-up job I had ever worked was in education, so this was a whole new world to me. Alec Baldwin's words rang in my ear constantly- "Always Be Closing!" "Coffee is for closers!"

So I trained, and went out to close the deal. All I had to do was convince business owners to let me sell policies to their employees- easy, right? I mean, who wouldn't want that for their employees? But I quickly discovered it wasn't that easy. At all. Nobody trusts an insurance guy, and business owners did not want to talk to me. Some of them were downright mean. (Unfortunately, one of the worst experiences I had was at a local Christian college- but that's another story.) I kept plugging away, but each day my confidence in my ability to do the job, and my confidence in myself, slowly eroded. I became moody and irritable. I would pull up in front of businesses and literally become paralyzed with fear- I wouldn't even get out of my car. I would just drive away. Every once in a while I would have a little success- enough to delude me that I should keep trying. You see, the bottom line was- I was no good at this. I just didn't have the stomach for it. I think it's natural for some folks, but for me, it was not. And it was so frustrating. I worked with people who made it look so easy- they would go out, open new accounts with ease, and make tons of cash. While I continued to wither away. Finally, after five years of shame and embarrassment, I allowed myself to think what was previously the unthinkable. "Maybe I should go back to teaching...."

So I did. The school I was at previously had an English position available, and I went back. And you know what boys and girls? It ain't so bad! Here's where the "perspective" part comes in. Now that I've tried to make it in the "real world", the stuff that would really frustrate me at school doesn't bother me much anymore. It feels safe and comfortable. And most of all- I think I'm pretty good at it. Now don't get me wrong- there's no Movie of the Week based on me, and Morgan Freeman will not play me in a film. But I feel somewhat confident about my skills in a classroom. And it feels good. I haven't felt good about myself in a long time. My five years in a dog-eat-dog job was probably the most humbling experience of my life. And to be honest, I don't know if I've fully recovered. There are still days when I don't feel too good about myself, or confident in my abilities. But I think I'm slowly getting back to me. And I like that.

Now I know what you're thinking. "Oh boo-hoo- would you like some cheese with your wine??" Yes, I have been on a pretty big pity party for a while. I have a really good life. Wonderful wife, fabulous kids, and food, shelter, and clothing. I've got everything I need. So if it sounds like I'm whining a bit, it's because I am. But shouldn't we be allowed to every once in a while?? Besides- cheese really goes well with wine. So the next time I start to get down on myself, I'll just pour myself another glass of Pinot Noir, and really focus on all of the wonderful things in my life. And who knows? Maybe Paul Giamatti will play me in the major motion picture "Mr. Bartley's Opus".